Drawn from case studies, his work as a Greek Orthodox priest, and his own experiences as a son and father, Kalellis’s examples range from instances of physical distance and emotional separation to total abandonment and untimely death. In each case he guides individuals to pursue a healthy resolution of their experiences.

Informing psychology with his signature compassion and forgiveness—for both self and family—Kalellis reveals how a strong belief in the Heavenly Father can help sons and daughters understand their earthly parents, while freeing themselves from the feelings of abandonment they might have carried from childhood into adulthood.

Each chapter is enlivened by inspiring quotes from literature and scripture. The book concludes with a series of invitations for personal meditation and further reflection.

“If you are a father, a son or a daughter, a wife, or a mother who, at one time, has felt abandoned, abused, or neglected by your father, this book is for you. As you read each chapter, you will feel enriched, and gradually you will realize that your life has been continuously protected by the one and only Father who loves you unconditionally. Regardless of your present emotional or physical condition, your Heavenly Father is present.”
—from the Prologue

Contents

Prologue
1. The Problem Starts Early
2. Abandonment: Its Effects?
3. When Fathers are Absent
4. When Mothers Are Absent
5. In Search of a Loving Father
6. “Is There Someone Who Can Love Me?”
7. Loneliness
8. You Can Be Alone but Not Lonely
9. Solitude: Choosing to Be Alone
10. No Parent Is Perfect
11. Abandoned Parents
12. My Own Life as a Father
13. You Are a Creature of Love
14. You Can Be Reconciled
15. Intimacy With Jesus Christ
Epilogue